Well, what do you know almost 2 years later she is the friend that I need most in this world. We have managed to patch up some of the previous issues and become good friends again. But the “space” between us is still there. It’s never going to be how it used to be when my phone would ring first thing on a Saturday morning…okay..noon…I would pick up and there is my bestie. First call of the day!! I miss that. But I am grateful that we are back to communicating and knowing full well that its a friendship that can survive, evolve and change when needed.

I guess that’s part of the “coming out on top” and just believing in yourself no matter what others say. Because it’s really the other person’s problem if they are so concerned with other people’s body – and then ultimately, it’s them with the confidence problem.

I mean, even Regina George just wanted to be liked, in the end.

I’ve tried to employ some confidence boosting mantras lately and now tell myself that if someone hands me a compliment, accept it, embrace it and most importantly believe. Unless, she’s Regina George.

i hope things are going well for you, and i take the lack of posts to mean that as the both of us used to only write while upset. so lack of posting is supposed to be a good thing. i just recently checked your blog again, actually. i miss your poetry!

Funny, I feel the same way now about posting. Like there’s nothing terribly interesting to write. And if I do write, it takes a lot of effort. I also no longer stay up pouring emotions onto the screen. Working has definitely turned me into…well…I wouldn’t say a morning person, because I hate getting up…but a must-get-up sort of person.

Anyway, good to visit with your for a bit!